trash nothing wedding (St. Charles Illinois)

I'm getting married in mid June this year and need help with the small wedding and reception for about 30 people. Thought I'd try to do a TRASH NOTHING/FREECYCLE WEDDING! I am not ashamed to use second hand stuff. Can anyone help? I'm trying to have the romantic Victorian look. Lace tablecloths and/or runners (we have 7 rectangle tables and 3 round), cloth napkins, fake flowers and greens and silver color or crystal looking containers to put the decorations and snacks in. Thank you in advance for any help. When we are done, the items will be donated to a ministry to use for their events.